Psychoanalysis in perspective

Explore

What lies hidden beyond your conscious thoughts.

The desires that influence your decisions without you realizing.

The internal forces that guide your actions and relationships.

Who you really are when you're with others.

Analyze

That feeling that something is missing in your life despite your achievements.

The emotional voids that no experience seems to completely fill.

Why you keep searching for something more even though you don't know exactly what it is.

The moments when you wish for a different life than the one you have.

Examine

The problematic situations that repeat themselves in your life.

The behavior patterns you can't escape from.

Why some experiences both attract you and make you suffer at the same time.

The discomfort you feel when facing unknown aspects of yourself.

Recognize

How the words you use reflect and shape your way of seeing the world.

That sometimes you can't find how to express what you really feel.

That truly speaking and being heard can transform your experience.

How understanding your own story opens paths toward change.

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The shared void

True love is that beggar who gives away his hunger. Like two voids learning to dance together. The shared lack is the only honest gift.

Love places us in an impossible position: we offer precisely what we lack to someone who does not request such an offering. We extend our empty hands with the promise of fullness, while the other, also inhabiting their own emptiness, does not recognize what we attempt to give. This fundamental contradiction constitutes the very essence of the amorous encounter, where two absences try to complement each other without ever completely succeeding.

Paradoxically, it is this exchange of lacks that sustains the bond. Like two blind people describing a color neither has seen, we build together a necessary fiction. Love persists not despite this impossibility, but because of it; its power resides precisely in the unresolvable tension between what we seek and what we can actually obtain, between the fantasy of completeness and the reality of misencounter.

The analytic experience reveals that this economy of shared emptiness is perhaps the only possible space for genuine love. It is not in complete satisfaction where love finds its dwelling, but in the mutual recognition of our lacks. By embracing this condition, we discover that loving is not possessing or completing, but accompanying the other in the perpetual dance between desire and absence, between hunger and giving.

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Virtuous cruelty

Absolute moral certainty functions as an inverted mirror where the subject projects outward what they cannot recognize within themselves. The most toxic individuals navigate the world armed with an impenetrable conviction: their cruelty is justice, their attack is defense, their sadism is virtue. This armor of righteousness not only shields from external questioning but fortifies against the anguish of internal doubt.

Paradoxically, the more ferocious the moral crusade, the less capacity exists to recognize the shadow that motivates it. The subject who hunts monsters needs to constantly create them; their identity depends on having an enemy to attack. The very energy that could be directed toward introspection is channeled into identifying others' faults, transforming the social field into a tribunal where they are always judges, never the accused.

Clinical work reveals that behind these unshakeable moral certainties lies a fundamental terror: the fear of discovering one's own ethical ambivalence. The analyst observes how identification with "the good" functions precisely as a defense against the anguish of recognizing that we all inhabit gray zones, that moral purity is a fiction, and that pointing out others' flaws always conceals a fascination with what we claim to repudiate.