When the other dwells within us.

True hospitality does not occur when we open our door to the stranger, but when we allow their strangeness to open unknown doors within us.

Hospitality as abyss: When the other dwells within us.

True hospitality is an art that goes beyond a mere act of welcome; it embodies a deeper understanding of vulnerability and the complexities that accompany the presence of the foreigner. As Derrida articulates, authentic hospitality requires an openness toward the unknown and a recognition of the uncertainties that arise when encountering someone different from oneself (Derrida, 2000, p. 129). It challenges us to confront our prejudices and the possible discomfort that may accompany the act of receiving another into our lives.

Therefore, hospitality is not merely about offering a space or a meal; it is about cultivating a relationship that respects the individuality and identity of the foreigner. This hospitality invites us to break down barriers of familiarity and normality, embracing instead a shared humanity that recognizes the unique experiences and perspectives of the foreigner. It compels us to consider how our own identities are enriched through this engagement with others.

Ultimately, genuine hospitality transforms both host and guest by fostering dialogue and understanding. This encounter can lead to personal growth and an expanded cultural memory, enriching our sense of community and connection. Thus, true hospitality is not just a welcome, but a profound act of commitment that honors the complexities of human relationships and the valuable lessons they hold.

References

Derrida, J. (2000). Of hospitality. Stanford University Press.

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