The essence of care

True care is rooted in presence, a profound connection that transcends mere physical proximity. It's about being fully engaged with another person, attuning to their needs, thoughts, and emotions. This presence manifests in attentive listening and meaningful dialogue, where words are not just heard but deeply understood.

The healing power of such presence lies in its unconditional acceptance. When we are truly present for someone, we validate their existence and experiences without judgment. This creates a safe space where individuals feel seen, heard, and valued for who they are, not for who others think they should be.

By encouraging others to take their lives seriously, we empower them to embrace their own journey. This form of care doesn't seek to fix or change, but rather to support and nurture. It acknowledges the inherent worth and potential within each person, fostering self-reflection, growth, and a deeper connection with the singular truth of one's desires.

Further Reading Nouwen, H. J. M. (1974). Out of solitude. Ava Maria Press.